Opening Argument: Welcome To December, Merry Bummer Christmas
I've struggled with how to handle Christmas this year. I love Christmas, usually: I love the music, I love the corny movies, I love the cookies. But of course, I rarely undertake the enjoyment of those things by myself as I am doing this year. I am not shopping, I am not attending my friends' holiday parties, I am not traveling to see my family, and I am certainly not attending any concerts. (Have you ever been to a sing-in of Handel's Messiah? They're great. They're also probably the most efficient events to spread germs that one could invent.)
Thus, I have made for myself a new holiday, which I am happy to invite all Christmas celebrants to enjoy: Bummer Christmas. It's still Christmas, it's admittedly not the Christmas I wish I were having, and I will be celebrating it anyway.
What, you may ask, is the nexus between Bummer Christmas and pop culture? Well, it is that as soon as I realized I wanted to work on developing a Bummer Christmas strategy, I started to notice that many of the things I love are already built for Bummer Christmas. People talk about this a lot with the song "Have Yourself A Merry Little Christmas," which is about trying to enjoy the holiday even when everything is terrible, hoping that the next one will be better. Resisting this fact is why people replace "until then we'll have to muddle through somehow" with "hang a shining star upon the highest bough." The original? Is Bummer Christmas.
It's true of "I'll Be Home For Christmas," too, though. You can listen to the whole thing, about how I will be home for Christmas, and you can plan on me, and you should decorate the house because I will definitely be there, and then you get to that last line: "...if only in my dreams." Ah, I see. BUMMER CHRISTMAS.
Charlie Brown? Strong tones of Bummer Christmas. George Bailey? The king of Bummer Christmas. (They never did get the money back.) A Christmas Carol? That guy is haunted by a chained ghost. It's nice to buy a family a goose and to make amends with the neighborhood, but you're haunted now, fella.
Don't get me wrong: If you are someone who celebrates Christmas normally and you choose to observe Bummer Christmas, it's not like you have to decorate your tree with coal. I actually got a tree for the first time this year -- I've never bothered before. But since I'm looking at that corner of the room all the time anyway, why not put a tree there with a bunch of lights on it? Provided the dog doesn't start to chew on the branches, it's all upside, really.
I support all approaches, to be clear: I support people who ignore Christmas, who never celebrated it at all, who go all-out to create the most normal Christmas they safely can -- holidays are a hugely personal thing. It's almost paradoxical to decide to invent your own "traditions" that you hope to never use again; that's what I did when I roasted a chicken for myself a couple of days after Thanksgiving.
But here we are, where we are. We're figuring it out, holidays included. For me, Bummer Christmas is my personal recognition that it both is and is not the holiday I know. Much of the music I love is right there for me anyway.
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